Do I need a prenuptial agreement if I do not have significant assets?
Possibly. Marital agreements are used as often to allocate debt, to protect a future inheritance, or to define expectations about income and support as they are to divide existing wealth.
Can a prenuptial agreement decide child custody or child support?
No. Those questions are decided by a court when they arise, based on the child's best interests. A provision purporting to settle them in advance will not bind the court.
What is the difference between a prenuptial and a postnuptial agreement?
A prenuptial agreement is signed before the marriage; a postnuptial agreement is signed after. The subject matter overlaps substantially, but a postnuptial agreement is reviewed under a different lens in some states, because the parties are already married and owe each other duties they did not owe as fiancés.
How far before the wedding should the agreement be signed?
Start several months out and sign well before the date. A signature obtained close to the ceremony invites an argument that it was not voluntary.
Can we write the agreement ourselves?
You can, but each of the five states imposes requirements on content, disclosure, and execution, and New York additionally requires acknowledgment in the form used to record a deed. A self-drafted document that misses one of those requirements is a document a court may decline to enforce.
My fiancé(e)'s attorney sent me an agreement. What should I do?
Have it reviewed by your own attorney before signing anything. The lawyer who drafted it represents the other side, not you.
Can a signed agreement be changed later?
Yes. Spouses can amend or revoke a marital agreement by a subsequent written agreement.
Which state's law will govern our agreement?
Often, but not always, the state where the enforcement proceeding is brought — which may not be where you married or where you live today. Agreements can include a governing-law provision, though a court is not required in every circumstance to honor it.
Can a prenuptial agreement address what happens at death, not just divorce?
Yes, and for second marriages it often should. Waivers of elective-share and other spousal estate rights are a routine component, and they need to be consistent with the will and trust documents that accompany them.
How much does a marital agreement cost?
It depends on the complexity of the assets, the extent of disclosure required, and how much negotiation the terms take. We discuss fees at the consultation.